relationships

Ok ladies, sometimes the hardest thing for us to do as beautiful, smart, sexy and  independent women is to realize that some one just isn't that into us.  I mean, why wouldn't some one want to be with beautiful you every second of the rest of their lives?  Well, I don't know the answer to that question, but I do know how to spot some one who just isn't feeling it like you are.   And since I've JUST gone through this YET again, I'm posting a handy dandy little list below.  PLEASE don't fool yourselves, you're to beautiful and amazing to be wasting your time with some one who doesn't fully appreciate you.  If you can relate to anything below, sorry, but it is most likely time to move on.

1. You're wondering if you should call it quits
  Basically, if you're thinking it might be over, it probably is.  Yes strange circumstances come up.  People are stressed and busy.  But guess what, people will always be stressed and busy!  You're always going to have a job, responsibilities, places to go and things to do.  If a guy is using those things as an excuse not to see you, he just doesn't like you that much.

2. You have to wonder if he likes you
Pretty similar to the above.  If a guy really likes you, you won't have to wonder.  He'll be sure to make his feelings known to you in order to eliminate the risk of you misunderstanding and moving on.  He won't be too busy.  He may have a really busy schedule, but if he likes you he'll make time for you. 

3. You start calling, texting, emailing him first
Tough one.  It's hard for us girls to resist the urge to take charge and be leaders in this day and age.  We've grown up as empowered women, we've been taught that to get the things we want in life we have to stand up and take them!  No one's going to do it for us!  Yet when it come to calling guys in a dating relationship, things are still old-school.  Women may have gained civil rights but men have not lost their hunter-like instincts.  They still like the chase, they need it in order to feel like successful hunters!  So if a guy you're dating, who's always been the first to call stops calling, he's probably lost interest and stopped chasing for some reason which has led to you calling him first.  This is not going to win him back, in fact it'll just push him further away since you're no longer something he can't have.  If you throw yourself at someone, you're most likely going to get thrown right back.  Cut your losses and move on.

4. You spend Friday and Saturday nights alone
If a guy really likes you, he won't risk you spending prime date night real-estate with another guy.  If he really likes you he'll call early in the week to book those all important nights with you before anyone else snatches you up first.  If this isn't the case, he doesn't really like you.  You may actually even be a last resort, and who wants to be that!?  Don't settle girls!  You deserve better!  So if he hasn't made plans with you by Thursday or early Friday, MAKE OTHER PLANS!  Don't wait around for the chance that he might still call when it's 8:00pm  on a Friday night.  Get out there and meet some one new!

5. You found this article through Google
If you stumble across this article because you were searching google for how to know if you should call it quits, please refer to numbers 1 or 2 above.  :)  You shouldn't have to be searching for articles like this if you're in a healthy relationship.  Your guy will make sure you know that he's into you.  If he's not, then, he's not into you.

Wow, I don't even know how to start this.  I guess just come out and say it.  I'm single again!  Sometimes that's a great feeling, other times it makes me cry and each chocolates and ice cream all night and sleep all day.  It's almost been 3 months since it's been official, but about a year emotionally and mentally.  All I can say is, "what the heck happened to the dating scene!?"  Things are so different than I remember!  No one wants to commit, seems like everyone is about friends with benefits type relationships, having fun with no respon

Either I'm just letting my emotions get best of me tonight or it seems like no one ever stays together forever.  I'm so down about things tonight.  Just read this article about Holly and Heff splitting up and it's only adding to my down in the dump mood.